Anonymous said: Do you think having a baby at 18 is too too young?
i think its none of my damn business to say when it is ok to have a child if its not my body and my life.
but of course im willing to share my ideas and opinions on this situation.
my mom gave birth to my brother at 17 years old, pregnant at 16. she didnt even have her drivers license yet. she is the most beautiful and strongest woman i know. of course that was back in the 80s. teen pregnancy wasnt an epidemic and frowned upon as much but it definately wasnt the norm. my mom gradated high school with my older brother in the audience. she continued onto college and had my sister, still didnt give up. she got pregnant again with me while getting her bachelors. so what is the issue with having a baby at 18 if you know what you’re doing with your life and wont let it stop you from reaching your dreams?
realistically, having babies or not, there are NOT many 18 years olds living on their own, with a career, car, and everything. so when people talk shit about teen pregnancies and them “living with mommy and daddy still” ummmm shut the fuck up. but if you arent looking for a job to support your new edition nor planning a future, i dont think you need to be having babies.
but at the end of the day, its not my body nor life to tell someone when to have a child. people will complain that you’re too young to be having a kid but scream at you for getting an abortion. giving a kid up for adoption isnt an easy walk in the park like people think. so there is never a win-win in situation like these.
having a kid at 18 means you have a few more years longer with your child then i do, and thats fucking awesome.
This is awesome and I’m reblogging for the recent anon I’ve received!❤️
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So Delaney is kicking my ribs a lot. Well she had her foot in my ribs and so I was pushing and I pushed in and grabbed and it was def her foot :) like ahh her foot!!! So amazing!!!!
September 24th, 2014
Delaney is now 24 weeks and 5 days.
She was kicking up a storm while I was trying to sleep last night! Wish you could have been there to feel her.
I miss you so much. This morning I got up sad, I wished so much that i would have been waking up to wake you up with kisses! Wish our bodies would have been intertwined. I can’t even express how much I love you! I wish I could call you up and beg you to come meet me right now, but I know we can’t right now.
I really hope you get to come to the next baby appointment in October! I’ll get to see you then and you’ll get to see me and Delaney!!!
Gah I gotta go into work now, I’m working 7 am to 2 pm.
I fucking love you baby
You say I’m crazy ‘cause you don’t think I know what you’ve done. But when you call me baby, I know I’m not the only one.
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